Would you be more happy if you had less clutter in your home? If you don't feel good about your space and you have this nagging feeling that you would be happier with less stuff, it's time to clear out the clutter and make room for the things you do want in your life, like more free time. To start the journey of a happier and well ordered home, do a walk through of your space to identify problem areas that could be cured with a good decluttering and organizing. As you tour each room, focus on areas that make you feel bad in some way and identify the negative feelings associated with certain objects within that space.
Sometimes good intentions can lead to clutter and the bad feelings associated with having the wrong stuff around. Space hogging objects that you associate with incomplete tasks can lead to feeling like a failure or lack of discipline. Over time a pile cooking utensils you never use because of the time and hassle involved in making your own bread, canning your own fruit or whipping up a gourmet meal can come to represent lack of time and/or lack of commitment using your cooking skills. To feel better about an over packed pantry, make peace with the fact that you are not Martha Stewart, donate kitchen items in good shape to someone who can use them and embrace the simple pleasure of fixing easy to prepare meals.
Incomplete projects that you have been meaning to get to forever with little progress to show for it creates the uneasy feeling of unfinished business that needs to be addressed. Stop telling yourself that you are going to finish that project someday, which in your heart you know is a lie, and pass on the pieces of that craft project to someone who can repurpose them (like an art teacher) or hire someone to finish that D.I.Y. project designed to improve your home. Once the project issue has been resolved you can let go of that feeling of needing to solve the problem of unfinished projects, and enjoy the satisfaction of having addressed the issue of those projects so you can now focus your attention of more pleasurable pastimes than beating yourself up over not getting things done.
Few things are more depressing than the sight of unpaid bills piling up on the kitchen table. A pile of bills do not make an attractive centerpiece on any table. Of course the easiest way to get rid of bills is to pay them as soon as you get them, but not everyone has the money to pay every bill the moment it appears. Instead of having bills sitting around in plain sight reminding you of your lack of money, try an easy organizing solution, such as storing bills in a shoebox with a checkbook and a book of postage stamps. Tuck the box of bills and bill paying essentials into a handy drawer near a convenient writing surface like a desk. Bring the box out only when you are ready to pay those bills. An easy way to remember to bring the box out is to create an easy to remember bill paying schedule. For example, you can bring the box of bills and bills paying essentials out every time you get paid and put the box out of sight and out of mind once the bills are paid. Now that the bills aren't in you face and on your table, find an appealing centerpiece for your table that makes you feel good, like fresh flowers, a bowl or fruit or a lovely tablecloth.
Before you get rid of certain items, it's helpful to rid of the guilt associated with letting go of those items. you loved your aunt Edna but you don't love her taste or the appallingly tacky furnishings she left you, consider renewing those outdated pieces with a make over. A fresh coat of paint or reupholstering furniture if the piece has good bones can give new life to old pieces so you get to keep a sentimental piece without sacrificing your style. If you just can't live with a loved ones bad taste or the piece is not worth the effort of a major makeover, try to sell items through a furniture consignment store or donate them to a local thrift store. If the thought of getting rid of pieces given to you by loved ones makes you feel guilty, you can donate the money you get for the items to a favorite charity which makes this form of purging feel a little more noble.
In spite of the epidemic of digital photos, the reality is that not every moment is a Hallmark moment worthy of being memorialized forever. Just because you love your friends and family does not mean you have to turn your space into a photo gallery jam packed images of people and places you feel a connection to. To narrow down your collection of pictures worth displaying, pick images that you associate with especially positive memories such as special vacation or important milestone. You can involve family members living at home by having them pick their favorite picture of themselves. Engaging family members prevents the possibility that you might accidentally remove pictures that have major sentimental value to other members of the household. After narrowing down your collection of favorite pictures to something manageable, look for less cluttered ways to display the photos, such a buying large collage style frames that hang on the wall and contain multiple photos. A bunch of mismatched frames looks chaotic. For a more harmonious look buy picture frames that are similar in style and color, such as all silver frames.
Without the distraction of clutter piling up it's easier to appreciate what you have. As you finish each project take a moment to pause and focus on your sense of accomplishment before moving on to another task. Once you have finished a project, or several organizing projects, feel free to do another walk through your space and focus on all the wonderful things you are blessed to have in your home.
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